When I see people complaining or feeling lazy because they are asked to do something they almost never done or not been used before, I am happy to live my life. I am weary of people who complains all the time. I am happy to have parents who always tell me to never depend on anyone or never ask others when I need something , could it be glass of water. I am happy that I live a simple life. I am happy that I have to walk and struggle to get what I want while others can easily be driven somewhere. I am happy not to be born as a spoiled girl. I can get whatever I want from my parents if I want to , but because I see how life is difficult , when I see how people out there don't have the chance I have to have a roof under over my head and much more , i think that's already a lot and i should not be capricious so I choose to live as a person who live in her means. If someone keeps on living as a princess or prince , the simple hardship will be a calamity for her/him. Unfortunately , we never seems to enjoy things until we lose them and when we lose them , we finally know their value. I feel repulsion toward a person who complain on having Nike or Luis Vuitton Shoes or a girl crying because her husband didn't buy her the fancy Chanel bag. What can we say about a father who feels sad because his wife gave birth to a girl instead of a baby boy ? Doesn't he know that some parents can't even have children. When it happens to others , we advise them to be patient , but when it comes to us we complain. That's not the example. Isn't it crazy how some people can be selfish? Back to the topic , I am happy that I get soaked when I walk outside while others are in their cars complaining about the weather. I am happy that if my clothes get ripped , i don't buy a clothes right away , even if I have the means to do so. Instead , I prefer to sew it and don't have to go to a tailor or ask my mother , because i wanna learn how it feels to make it alone , to do something new and not to count on others so easily. I am happy to struggle to get what I want. and I am even more content because i choose to struggle , sometimes. I prefer not to chose the facility. I believe Allah. I didn't say I believe in Allah. Which means I believe in His words. Didn't He said " Allah doesn't burden a soul beyond that it can bear " ? If He put me in this situation , then i can totally go through this. Everyone can , that's His promise. I enjoy being in company of people who have less than me , i learn a lot from them! As we say , anyone we meet have something to teach us. Always put yourself in other's shoes , it will open up your mind and you'll become more mature. If it's too hot , some almost never have sun in their countries. If it rains , others are tested by drought. If you don't have shoes , others don't have feet. If you're tired to walk , others wish to have feet and walk. If you are fed up studying , others would love getting an education. If you complain about having a fan instead of a AC , some have neither. If you didn't get to eat the food you like , some people don't even find a morself or the half of what you're eating. Always tell to yourself, " what If i didn't have this or that? How others do when they don't have this or that ? what If I become an orphan all of sudden , how am I going to do things by myself?" I wanna live as the blind , as the lame , the orphan , the poor.... If I keep on thinking like that , i know whatever happen to me , I'll be used to the situation , accept it and never complain ! We are tested with everything we have , let's show gratefulness to the best Creator and He'll give us more. Allah said " If you give thanks , I will give you more". ( Qu'ran 14:7 ) .Trust Him. Learn to accept. Never forget , there is always someone struggling more than you do and it is nothing compared to what you endure :) There is a reason for every pain , struggle , you will be thankful later ! I will never thank you enough , thank you for everything Allah.
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